We all find ourselves in situations that we don’t like from time to time. When you do, ask yourself two questions:
1. “How was I complicit in getting myself into this situation,” and
2. “How can I proactively keep myself out of these types of situations in the future?”
The answer to number 2 will be not doing how you answered number 1.
That’s not to say that you’re totally at fault for every situation you find yourself in, but neither are you entirely blameless. How were you complicit?